

Feminine Silence is part memoir, part manifesto, part love letter to the women and men who have shaped me. Across its chapters, I explore what it means to lead as โthe first,โ why meritocracy is not enough, how culture shapes womanhood, and what it will take to build futures that are truly unbound.
Between wrapping up my summer internship at Xbox, planning and hosting a full-scale U.S. Gala for Ntha Foundation, and relaunching my first book By the End of Your Teens โ I found myself teetering on the edge of burnout more than once. I was trying to do it all.
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After over a decade working across public, nonprofit, and multilateral systems โ from the grassroots to the United Nations Headquarters โ Iโve come to understand that development is rarely about what we do. Itโs about how we think. And whom we center.
In the 7 years since founding the Ntha Foundation in 2018, we have, in partnership with international development agencies and schools across Africa trained over 10,000 learners across 20+ African countries, reached over 500,000 people through digital campaigns, launched our e-learning platform digitalskillsforafrica.com, and created real pathways for creatives, innovators, and entrepreneurs to thrive. And yet โ it never felt like we had truly started. Not until now.
This June, I reintroduced By the End of Your Teens โ the first installment in what will be a growing series of reflections on growth, identity, and navigating life as a young person with ambition.
Iโve now been in Redmond for 7 weeks, adjusting to the slower pace and sharper expectations of summer at Microsoft. In the midst of all this, something personal and precious quietly happened: I republished my first book, By the End of Your Teens.
When I was told that weโd be living at Redmond Town Center (RTC) for the summer as Microsoft Interns, one of the biggest selling points was its unbeatable proximity to a whole world of food.
At the end of May, 2025, I was awarded the Most Inspiring Female Corporate Leader in Malawi. A huge honor. As I received the award, what I felt most was less pride, and more reflection. Reflection on what it has taken to become visible in a world that often demands excellence from women but offers very little space for us to shine on our terms.
You voted, and the Award is OURS! Thank you SO MUCH for voting for me as the Most Inspiring Female Corporate Leader in Malawi, 2025.